And yes, I will pursue damages to the fullest extent of the law. 

You move to other venues gradually (mail outs are effective, but take much longer to get your return). 

You cannot garnish wages if you win a judgment for damages.

The contractor estimate for the cost to repair the damage is approximately 93k.

If this property had been in one of the areas zone for more density they would surely have done a normal "Seattle six-pack" of 0-lot-line townhouses but instead they short platted 2 lots to still in effect end up with a six-pack even though in an area not zoned for it, at the cost of having to sell units as condos and deal with other ADU limitations (e.g. 1000sf limit).In 2023 the State mandated Seattle-style ADU regulations across all urban growth area cities/counties, going even a bit further (2 of any combination of attached/detached allowed).

I also appreciate the point of view that says, "while I'm an adult with agency, my experiences have had a definite and profound effect on who I am and how I navigate the world.  

Perhaps my son being one of the tenants will help to mitigate the damage?

Building a true buyers list requires networking and effective marketing channels, especially if you have the capacity to expand beyond your local market.

Look for properties with potential for rental income that covers expenses.Long-Term Strategy: Plan strategically for future moves, leveraging VA loans and other financing options to expand your real estate portfolio while maximizing rental income and equity growth.By strategically managing your current properties and leveraging financing options like HELOCs and VA loans, you can effectively expand your real estate investments over time.

This can help mitigate potential damages down the road.