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If you plan to sell quickly, a bridge or fix and flip option is probably the right choice.

This might entail improving the apartments to support a higher rent or finding methods to increase their worth.Think about if renting out your homes yourself is the most economical choice.

And that one plat is worth $1,000,000...so the builder's have no choice to build a multi-family property there just to make the numbers work.  

The choice depends on your priorities, risk tolerance, and financial goals.

Tulsa  is a good choice overall.

There’s really so many options it’s hard to know what is the most beneficial.

A lot of your choice will come down to some personal preferences, lifestyle and pace choice and, as others mentioned, financing.

Consulting with a local agent specializing in those types of deals would be highly beneficial for you.Don't hesitate to dig deeper! 

I think you may have very well narrowed down my strategy choices down to one of three; the BRRRR method (although this might be too much to start with for a newbie), the live-in flip that you mentioned (probably the most practical as I've been part of many different projects in the construction industry), and a combination of house-hacking/live-in flip (probably the most rewarding with a potential to swap between units as I finish one in order to bring better rental income).