No experience and no skin in the game will also be an issue with the lender.

I know this situation can be a very sad & sensitive time for the family and I don't want to come off as insensitive to their loss.

You have to have skin in the game.   

I leave out sensitive information but I want non-guests to see the video as well

How much skin in the game is the borrower providing?

And what kind of skin in the game you would have. 

They have less skin in the game than a tenant who stands to lose their home if evicted and sued.

What is sensitivity analysis if project cost is 10% higher, it takes 6 more months to build ?

As a property owner you have considerably more safeguards in place with a triple net lease where a management company has skin in the game vs a simple rental agreement.

Apparently they should be brick pointing with lime mortar, but instead, they said the city will just plaster over the historical materials (original brick and lime mortar) with Portland cement because it's cheaper, faster and easier than working with more delicate, temperature sensitive lime mortar.