Don’t want it to sound like a threat of some “finger wagging” or “slap on the wrist”

It's a big circle with finger pointing and I am spinning.  

I will however shake a finger at the agent for not reviewing this document with you and teaching you what youre signing.

I would just point out that when you get involved with syndications as a LP, you are basically handing over your money and crossing your fingers that the guys you are hooking up with are honest, fair, and will take care of you well.  

I am not sitting with my fingers crossed on what to do with the property.

They create the team and a plan, acquire, due diligence, take care of loan products (If needed), oversee construction/renovation, hire property manager (or run in house management,) take care of accounting/taxes/K1s, deal with closing or refinancing.An LP (limited partner) just puts in the funds (after hopefully vetting the GP and team) and keeps fingers crossed while earning mailbox money. 

Many won't lift a finger to do anything. 

The lady that I spoke with said that they provide that information in printed form because of outstanding debts that the deceased might have.

But the cleaning lady being used ( that is contracted by the complex) would not give any information as to what would need to be cleaned to avoid a cleaning fee.

There was this group of ladies at a few  tables over.