With an invoice showing "no charge" for fixing the cupboard, this hopefully can't happen again if a contractor changes did mind or has some type of mental lapse.  

Your prenumptual agreement will spell out all the terms and rules of your marriage. generally lawyers will want to have: everything that is separate is separate mentality. meaning, unless you specifically name her or transfer her name to a property, thing, etc, it is ONLY yours.

If your mental health is compromised by looking at deals, you should stop.

Sounds like we are in the same boat with a handyman :) And to @Jonathan Klemm point, I have to weigh the mental capacity of handling issues remote versus spending time with family.

The "Set it and forget it" mentality, I think, will limit your listing big time.I do all of the pricing across multiple listings. 

You have the usual causes like drugs/alcohol problems, mental illness and then you have the working poor who remain homeless.

So, if you have 10 units and you are going to pay $1,500 a month and you are working on an active income job, too, this is an easy switch due to the labor mentally and physically (even if it is just phone calls) to get these rentals running as a well-oiled machine.  

Pair that with E-myth to build solid systems and Can’t Hurt Me for mental toughness, and you’ve got a killer combo.But here’s the real trick: consistent action.

At this point I'm mentally prepared to take a loss and be done with it.

Did you know there's a proven link between cat ownership and mental health issues?