I like the idea of the checkbook IRA because it appears to be more convient than having to go through the custodian for checks.

Let me see, I guess we need a new promissory note for some of you to use, so here it is, at least the part you need to modify.I (We) the undersigned as borrower(s) do promise to pay, subcet to the terms herein contained, to the Holder the principal sum of ____________________($_________) Dollars.....etc.Borrower agrees to make payments in the amount of ____________ beginning on the first day of ___________ and like date thereafter, based soley on the borrower(s) ability and desire to pay same, until the outstanding principal is fully paid or at such time as may be convient for borrower(s).In the event of default by borrower(s), the assignment of rents made in connection with this obligation shall only be payable at the option of the borrower(s).

Specifically the refinancing of the FHA loan, and the use of convientional loans for the purchase of more multi-family properties in the future.

Get refinancing convientionally 2.

It may not be the most convient thing to go to court but its better to do it right then to give her something to come after you with like @Rob Beland said.

I’m currently in New York living with my mother however i don’t plan on moving just because it’s convient at this point in my life.

Honestly trying to think of some and not coming up with any.As you said it is convient for everyone, especially you.

Another thing you might consider doing is lofting your office space that is convient for you and a minimum of distractions.  

Another thing you might consider is a new office location that is convient and has minimal distractions.  

Another thing you might want to do is to find an office location that is convient to you and have minimal distractions.