So I'm insistent because I felt like I must be misunderstanding or overlooking something that others understand better...and again that's why I'm here.Their claim is that it's secured by this real estate, but yeah, that part I wasn't seeing was some sort of filing with a county and the ability for me to foreclose one way or another. 

Maybe that's just my misunderstanding of how renting SFHs works.

Ask for referrals to busy divorce attorneys (but make sure to tell your wife WHY you are asking so there are no misunderstandings).

You knew this as you were asking for an addendum.People misunderstand what "as-is" means in a contract.

They come to us with a tremendous mis-understanding of what you may and may not do with a self directed IRA.

@Paul Kochendorfer There has been a misunderstanding.  

Misunderstandings are always going to happen, but you need to minimize them.

I thought he was driving out there looking for cashflow properties, did i mis understand the thread?

Absent any concrete numbers/unless I'm misunderstanding, it sounds like you're giving away money now to pay down a loan in order to get it back later when you refinance at 0% return.

I just want to clarify some misunderstandings about the AASEW (Apartment Association of Southeastern WI).1.