I recommend you read a couple pages of "The Truth about Wholesaling" Its a huge long forum post filled with a lot of information and back and forth dialogue but gives a really good idea of the tough work it can be.

How much discretion do you use as to how to handle the dialogue with your tenants when documents are involved?

Is there a way to find the owners contact information to start a dialogue without going through the tenants? 

If you can continue to have open dialogue with the sellers, that is your best course of action.  

And your reply reminds to give them an open dialogue to share their opinions, so thank you!

I want to include something like that with the letter I'm about to send to a former tenant in order to stimulate some dialogue about paying.

If you’re still really interested then starting a dialogue with the seller may give you a better idea of the seller’s situation and incentive to sell.I’m curious to see what others weigh-in with – and please correct me where I’m wrong so I can learn too!

Excellent dialogue, guys!!

I am looking to establish a dialogue with new developers, landlord, and Investors.

If you challenge them at all, someone in the leadership politely suggest you attend a breakfast meeting where more dialogue can be put forth.