This first property is going to be a house hack so I figured I would learn some adult activities and cut the grass myself.

You can find some meetups on the Neighborhood Building Owner's Alliance website. 

This person is asking for specific website.  

I will gladly take any suggestions like meet ups, learning websites, books, podcasts, or even meet with other people who started real-estate investing to talk while I buy them coffee or dinner. 

Before making any decisions, review the information provided by San Francisco's Office of Short-Term Rentals website, consult with local experts such as real estate agents or property management companies that specialize in STR.

Check out websites such as Jump Off Campus.  

Quote from @Jayne Segman: Thank you. can you tell me what I should search for in the counties website specifically.   

We only sell MF in KC so feel free to checkout our brokerage website for some great resources! 

They're from the same guys that built Scoutpads and Superhostlabs but neither those websites are live anymore.

I would recommend either calling them up or going to the website and checking out the general process for landlords as well as requesting an inspection checklist so you already know what they're going to be looking for.