I have came to the realization at this point in life, it will be similar to a car payment for about the next ten years (and I started paying them off a year ago) if I am not able to make significant amounts of money in real estate.

We set up our system so that only a few of the exact same message are allowed to be sent, then our system automatically shuts you down, thinking you're a spammer.There's a way around this, though.

I own a 2 Family home that has a 3 car (detached) garage.  

Right now I see new commercial agents not used to making 80k or 100k a year the commercial broker average and then they are loading up on cars and bigger houses with vacations.

The debt includes student loans and car payments of both me and my husband.

@David Li Its great you bought a car from your rental income.

I got the deal with seller carrying note for 12 months at $1,000 a month principal only, no interest, and tenant pays $1,200 a month so having him stay and pay is not a bad option but he is constantly late on paying so I could have the eviction option after I give the 60 day to evict, but the yard is full of cars and trailers and if he can move those out it will save me money as well and he will be paying down the loan each month, but games can start if I wait or hold off.

It will be a similar situation with my car. 

He then sent me a message back saying they've been looking at selling their property but hadn't listed it yet. 2 bedroom, 1 bath remodeled house in the 35th and Western area with a two story garage that has a 1 bedroom apartment, studio apartment and 2 car garage.

I'm not sure what you are currently using to get an idea of the value of your property, but folks often use Zillow, which is rarely right.Personally, the way I decide if I should sell something, is by asking myself if I had "X" amount of money, would I buy THIS house, car, stock, etc?