I recently started a new job as a server and all the lenders I have talked to said I need to wait 2 years before I can get approved.

Use a process server.

A reverse exchange can help mitigate this but a willing buyer like you're looking for who will give you some lee way on the closing dates will server you even better.Sounds like these are student housing and are prime candidates for a portfolio sale to one investor. 

I’m very energetic and understand the concept of wholesaling because I was a reseller for about 6 years selling servers and switches.

I'm a college drop out, work as a server, and crave finical freedom.

I'm a college drop out, work as a server, and crave finical freedom.

._________________________________________________________________________________________________- The new eatery also created 150 local jobs in the area upon opening, meeting needs for executive chefs, managers, line cooks, prep cooks, bakers, dishwashers, bussers, bartenders, servers, hosts and retail sales associates.

On the 20th (per NYS law) I call my attorney and he gets his process server going.

The primary reason for delay was this process:(a) contact attorney, get him lease and applicable info(b) attorney contact process server, send him demand letter(c) process server schedules and then executes service(d) process server sends paperwork back to attorney(e) court date is made based on attorney's availabilityThe third we did ourselves. 

Just to be sure, I would call either a process server or the county court office and ask.