You can blow it or put it to work for you when you use it with discipline and with a deliberate purpose. 

I get the feeling you're being deliberately vague and I don't blame you.  

They deliberately misrepresented their interest rates on the phone to me.

Unless we take deliberate action to build our businesses and work toward success every day, we soon find ourselves ten years down the line a decade older and no closer to our goals. 

I'm ready to take my next (and this time deliberate) step to becoming a real estate investor! 

It is not an accident, it was very deliberate and it worked. 

Currently, by no deliberate fashion, I am a real estate investor by having to move out of a townhouse in New Hampshire.

That is a lie, a deliberate lie.  

Summed up, JP Morgan Chase has started a judicial foreclosure for a total of 81k in accrued interest, fees plus including the 41k balance and the like for the past 4 years concluding with the home going up for sheriff sale this May 1st.

(After all, if they're at the point in their career that they are willing to lend their expertise, it takes deliberate effort on their part, and they don't have time to make an effort if you don't reciprocate.)In going to over a hundred meetings in the past year, I've made a lot of contacts with some very savvy and successful folks, and not once did I ask to be mentored.