Here, greater education correlates with later marriage (if there is even marriage, about half do not both with marriage these days) and waiting longer to start a family.

Long-term capital investment is like a marriage.

The more experience you have with women (or men, it doesn't really matter, bad relationship partners come in all genders), the less likely you are to make a mistake in the single more important factor, your marriage, that decides if you go through life rich or poor.95% of US millionaire households are headed up by a married couple or a widow/widower. 5% are headed up by someone who is single or who chose not to remarry after divorce.

(it almost like a marriage) I know have my eye on a 10 unit complex and the way the market is I try to get the price down to 200k For this property.

It's a recurring, uncomfortable discussion as I intend to hold for the longterm, and moving on as an adult with marriage and my own investments. 

And I would rather have a happy marriage and be a little patient than possibley risk everyting to appease my need for speed.

Your attitude determines your altitude.Numbers don't lie people do...A partnership is like a marriage without sex...BUT that doesn't mean you can't get screwed!

Run the name in the county clerk ASSUMED NAMES and see if he has filed any DBA or business related docs, that could show clues to his current address.4.Run his name in the marriage query as see if he remarried or etc, you will see the current address where the marriage license was mailed.5.

My wife came out of her previous  marriage with a small IRA of roughly $60K and can start drawing from it penalty free in June. 

It's supposed to be on property that was acquired during your marriage, but most banks will be conservative and have the spouse sign regardless.