Its important to set boundaries, be professional and not let people get under your skin.

That severely limited the number of lenders I could go to, so I ended up finding a loan product (that costs a premium, albeit) thru Velocity Capital Mortgage that allows fully-amortizing or IO payments (for first 10 years) which will help me build cash flow and accrue title seasoning while I find the right time to pull the trigger on a fully-amortizing DSCR product Did you work with any real estate professionals (agents, lenders, etc.) that you'd recommend to others?

That means it would be myself or a trained and trusted sales professional if I decide to hire one. 

Naturally they are talking with tax professionals, however most of them are not very knowledgeable about SDIRA's- hence this post to you all!

Consult a Professional: It’s always a good idea to consult with a real estate attorney or CPA to help you determine what’s best for your specific situation.If you need help navigating financing for your hard money loan or refinancing later, feel free to reach out→ I'd be happy to assist!

Besides, some actually see it a as a "sign of professionalism" (it was kinda odd to me at first) when they realize that I have multiple properties.I would agree, however, that if you are investing in some lower class neighborhoods as has been discussed on BP, I would need to take steps. 

Building a team with professionals and staying consistent with research will set you up for success.Good luck!

Did you work with any real estate professionals (agents, lenders, etc.) that you'd recommend to others?

Most professionals will recommend a separate LLC for every $1 million in assets but I don't think that's necessary.

Free and many real estate professionals use it.