That is, don't bring them last minute deals you know they'll be uncomfortable with and then walk away upset when they say no.

I do see their point that it would be much easier for Unit 3 to leave as his financials make it much easier for him to find another place.As I sit now I may be losing 2 tenants with this decision (not really too upset about this, I'd prefer not to live adjacent to someone who has it out for me...)

BOA won (remember, the owners bought a second) yet the judge awarded a few thousand... and their attorney called the small claims judgement award a "foreclosure" victory.

However, it is important that on the way there you reward yourself for small victories.

Sounds like it isn't your problem "technically", but if I were you I wouldn't upset the neighbors, you need allies when you don't live there.

If you're going to be upset when tenants make a mess and break things, you don't want to be a landlord.

So technically you can offer less than the upset amount and if the bank doesn't counter with a higher bid you win.

Y'all lazy landlord seem to be upset with a tenant whose actually doesn't mind Educating herself and doesn't mind challenging right from wrong JR T.

Thats 3 months from now.I'm pretty upset that i waisted all that time when i could've been searching for someone else to do the refi.

Secondly this can be an emotional transaction, particularly with an owner occupant...they have been making plans to move their family beaus they thought the house was sold, and they are now understandably upset.