I’ve been in this space for a long time, coaching and investing, and I love helping people get started.

Being clear about what you want to do from the start not only helps you stay on track, but it also makes it easier to spot problems or delays before they happen.I totally agree that talking to people is important.

The best way to learn about how to really invest in real estate is to read books, listen to good podcasts, and pair that with going to in-person meetups so you can see people just like you, married with 3 kids, who are making it work for them.

Really your reply is the kind of thing that has made Bigger Pockets so valuable for people like me with more limited access to a broad range of more experienced professionals.

The first couple is a no-brainer.The second group has too many people, increasing wear-and-tear on the home.

Paid mentorships can work but a lot of people here should be able to help with specific questions for free

The five people you spend the most time with will influence you.

People don't use Airbnb much in my area.

>on top of dealing with insane lawyers and social workers who believe that less fortunate people can hurt wealthier people.   

, the more likely people will respond with valuable insights.Network actively: Join local investor meetups, online forums (like BiggerPockets), and social media groups focused on real estate to start engaging in conversations.Be open to learning: Real estate investing is a dynamic field, and the more you learn, the more you'll realize there’s to know!