Right now I am looking at starting out by getting into wholesaling because knowing the ins and outs of finding deals will set me up for a successful real estate investing career and I feel like it's a good actionable step I can take while I’m still in college.

Like most guruish programs there is a lot of motivational stuff and prompting to action.

Does the other spouse have a basis to take legal action against the guest they did not invite?

Do you see today's news about Citigroup is leaving the infrastructure bond business ?

If so, that would be actionable to me.

Fines can be pretty high.Recommend you discuss with some sources to see how likely it is you face a violation ticket.The good news is that without an SSN, they are probably worried about anything that would involve the government.Of course, they could also steal everything from the property, trash it and disappear and you'd have no legal recourse.

What would you do in this situation, is there some course of action to take other than just waiting for them to answer (which at this point I am not even sure if the lights are still on or they're just ignoring us) Thanks for the help!!

Bought it on an action before finding out it was condemned. 

Your Realtor and Inspector care, but not that much, it ain't gonna be their house..As far as your current situation, all you can do is get multiple bids to fix the problems and then decide whether it is worth it to move forward.....if you sell, you have to reveal what you now know, so you will take a big hit.Factor in the future appreciation that you expect and maybe there is some money to be had in the future....maybe fix these up nicer than you intended and raise the rents as well.....Bad news all around, sorry for your problems.

I think I'm understanding it is about obtaining a solid grasp on these various aspects, then creating action in the right way.