Did you really want an answer to that question or were you just seeking sympathy?

I have no money to invest and my credit is let’s just say the devil would have sympathy for me.

If you knew him, perhaps you can reach out to the family with sympathy and begin to build rapport by offering solace. 

Instead, she waited for the eviction process to drag out.Make sure this goes on her record and see if there are any assets you can put a lien on (doubtful).You say we should have some sympathy, but we don't know how old this widow is. 

Part of it, I think, is sympathy. 

@Dan Zitofsky Thank you for your nice words and sympathy.

Unless we are talking about outright fraud by lenders (which was already illegal before 2008) I really have very little sympathy for the people who took out loans that were too big for them. 

And difficult to face up to my rookie mistakes that broke this deal.I'm not asking for sympathy...but do want advice that will get my face out of this bag of chocolate and put my boots back on the ground so I can find my lost grit.

I am not looking for a pat on the back, but that night maybe just a little sympathy.

And you will get no sympathy from a judge in MD.