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In the meantime I would love to have some helpful information or ideas to share with the buyers when we meet and ideally an agreement/contract we could fill out together once new terms are agreed to and then share that with the attorney so he could draft up the formal instrument for recording.If you have experience with this type of scenario, I’d love to hear any recommendations you have or any helpful resources you could point me to for the appropriate paperwork.Under foreclosure laws, you have to send appropriate notices and try to work with the borrower and offer a loan mod before foreclosure anyway. 

There is a lot of information available but I believe there are a few gaps I need.

No one can answer that because there is almost no information in the post to help.

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I've found conflicting information online.

There are some public sources (www.city-data.com) that can provide good baseline information.

The typical DST that an informed investor would seriously consider is only available for 80-120 days.Happy to chat nuances if you’d like to DM me. 

You and your husband are definitely in the right place to get valuable information.

To ensure you’re acting ethically:Full Transparency: Be upfront about your intentions and ensure the organization has all the information it needs to make an informed decision.Fair Value: Offer a price based on fair market value or justify any discount with clear benefits (e.g., taking on deferred maintenance or providing a quick, hassle-free transaction).Win-Win Mindset: Emphasize how the sale could help the organization, such as freeing up funds for its mission or relieving the burden of maintaining a distressed property.4.