I know that is frustrating, but you can't force that horse to drink as the old saying goes.My thought take a look at https://kwnextgen.org/  see if they would have any interest in that...or find some kind of meetup groups that has people their age in it or take them to a conference and see if anything sticks. 

Start with the Horse before the Cart.

Also id like to section 8 tenants as well  Focus on buying your first unit -  you are putting the cart before the horse and do not know what you do not know.

LOL  OMG what a bunch of horse dodo.. cant see how anyone could think that is real. 

So you can say this is how you always do it, and fall back on that if any litigiousness results from a denial or a stalled response.

I think you need to pick a horse and reason from there.  

It has a 2,100sf home on the property, horse barn, pasture, rodeo ring, and backs up to a small body of water.

who ever is in title can file BK to stall and give the prop time to sell. or they need to negotiate a forbearance  or sell now for what they can get or find the cash and payoff the loan.. 

Of course, then there are the easy cases, like when I called the last landlord for this guy who shouldn't be living in my rental, and his first statement was "he was full of horses**t."

So to combat that trade imbalance from facilitating a stall-out via deflation of currency in domestic supply, we MUST keep printing.