Eventually, I built up enough wealth and cashflow that I could start occupying the nicer spots, and eventually stepped up to nicer and nicer homes for myself.

You've landed in the perfect spot to kickstart your networking and learning journey.

@Chris Seveney s comments are spot on.

Also, the "asshat" comment is spot on.

@Sunny Kohli Hi.

I do not like using inspectors that do not have pictures with arrows pointing to the trouble spots that go along with their text.

When you contribute in other ways, like property management or spotting profitable deals, a partnership might provide you access to their creditworthiness.Examine your alternatives for private finance.

Hey I know your in a tough spot I was once also I also was in foreclose and was losing my home so I know how you feel let me help you out of your situation  Blah Blah blah.   

Quote from @Sunny A.: Where in SJ?

I guess I could prospect harder for seller financing deals but in my mind I would hate to be in a spot where I can't move on something right away which is where I am now.