I am thinking of tackling my bathroom remodel myself and using a Wedi shower system.

I think it comes back to fundamentals blocking and tackling. 

I know this is a vague answer, but I would circle back and say it depends a lot on where you are at - amount of debt, plans, predicted future income, comfortability with debt, etc.I think being able to house hack and minimize your costs, if not eliminate them and get some cash flow, could be a great way to help you tackle those debts.  

My question is… should be do the BRRR method first before tackling a house hack?

It's high level stuff and usually these deals are tackled together with high level investors (aka net worth).

If you tackle 1-2 projects with 15-20% margins you’ll build your team, your network, and your skills while actively hunting for that perfect BRRRR. 

I find that Im more of a details person and less of the numbers - Eventually the goal is to find a business partner who's strength is analyzing the deals while I tackle the management and contracting side of it all.

Any teams want to help me tackle?

First, I want to commend you for wanting to tackle these challenges that we know sometimes property management present.

I would suggest finding a mentor, partnership, or syndication out of state to help guide you through the process instead of trying to tackle out of state investing on your own, until you get some experience.