At the end of the day as long as you are both invested in the long term goal and have clarity from that, I think you'll both enjoy the ride.

Bottom line on stocks: You are mostly along for the ride.  

When I was 12 all I cared about was riding my 3 wheeler, swimming and watching TV.

Many of the buyers who've intended to buy pre-COVID-19 were sitting on the sidelines during the lockdown so there's a bottleneck of buyers while the inventory has mostly remained the same and people clinging onto their homes riding out forbearance, which ought to expire towards the end of this year. 

Cap rates expanded for a period and properties sold for cheaper, but if the sponsor didn't have to sell, they were able to then ride the wave in pricing increase and do really well. 

Every resident should leave behind part of their story and history.Add an inspiration page to the website.Would even be fun to do DIY projects with the resident directly.Offer additional services as needed, including healthcare support, social support, general errands etc.Leverage nursing friends to create a home health care wing of the company.Explore research on the use of therapy animals, and incorporate into services.Create events that promote group interactions across the various tenants within the GNA community.Team sportsRegular cookoutsTeam buildingFind ways to focus on any positive impacts for children in the home.Look into unique tutoring or home schooling business ventures.Provide ride services to ensure kids get to school.Offer daycare services.Create a unique fund matching opportunity to promote investment in an early fund for either graduation or retirement.When a resident is ready to move, offer support in other available properties within the GNA, or moving services to their desired location.Build a department to assist in everything moving related, including processing procedures for personal belongings that may not fit in the new location.Explore the idea of a “Brick and Mortar” operation to deal with accumulation of household items that is an inevitable part of the entire process.

Cash flow from rental income also provides investment optionality as you have full flexibility to utilize that cash however you deem fit, as opposed to letting your investment ride.

I want to retire on my terms unlike many older riders I see still forced to ride even though there bodies are not cut out for it any longer .And I'm tired of seeing my young daughters cry every time dady has to leave home for sometimes months at a time.  

Specifically, Johns Hopkins has already clarified the “several hours to several days” study, which suggests a far lower likelihood of anyone contracting COVID-19 from a hotel or STR stay versus riding a crowded bus, having someone cough on them while buying 80% off tiger shirts at Wal-Mart, or getting takeout from the local fast food joint that just happened to have one of their employees sneeze as they were packing up your food (which by the way, are all still businesses and experiences we are all exposed to). 

But you have a lot of money riding on it so hire competent counsel.