Toughen up and watch some youtube videos of cold calls, etc. 

You need to either hire a property manager, or toughen up, and realize it’s all business and not personal.

You either need to toughen up, treat this like a business and/or hire a professional property manager. 

She can leave on good terms and get a deposit back or she can make it difficult and expensive for both parties.You'll have to toughen up if you want to be successful as a Landlord.

People in this situation will string you along as far as they can until you finally get tough and say no more.... they are going to ride this wave until it crashesYou have already given them a very sweet deal...... time to toughen up and say that free ride is over.

I don't want to see anyone suffer, but the really tough folks who survive and proper had to suffer to toughen up. 

. - You're probably the nicest guy but you're going to have toughen up and get a little smarter with what you are doing.

Being that we are all grown-ups here and trying to succeed in the real world, I feel that sugar coating advice as to not offend anyone is a silly waste of time for busy full time investors who are offering free advice based on their experiences.I do not mean to offend you in any way (dangit, I just sugar coated it) when I say I feel you need to consciously make an effort to toughen up!  

Because like it or not, the gloves will come off come time for the general elections and Obama could use the punches right now to toughen him up.As for Fox News.

When confronted about it, they act similar to how you're acting in this thread, they're offended that I would look at the purchase history for the house, they're offended that I calculate my own ARV, blah blah blah. 2) I hate to break it to you, but yes, you are VERY wrong and if this offends you, you need to toughen up that outer shell a bit.