What methods do other private money lenders use to pass along servicing fees to the investors involved?

Looking for help and suggestions- I want to say I have learned my lesson and now know to use a third party to hold funds.This is my first time working with a private lender/family member.

We use a combination of HML and our private investor network.

If you announce to people there that you are a private lender, you'll have a lineup around the room to talk to you.  

This is an example of private lending which is different than the IRA owning real estate and does not trigger UDFI/UBIT tax.

What key factors influence your decision to partner with a lender for private money in real estate?

Quote from @Karen Smith: With more investors turning to private money lenders for faster funding, what benefits have you seen from using private financing versus traditional bank loans? 

Of course we did not wrap conventional loans only private mortgages that had no due on sale..

I have deals needing funding and want to ensure I'm structuring them in a way that's competitive and appealing to private lenders.

If you don't have the relationships, hire someone who does.This is why Brian Burke can go “large corporate” while I have to stay “small private”; he has the ability to MANAGE PEOPLE that I do not.