The process seems daunting and overwhelming, and I am not confident I will put the time in to talk to sources, analyze, and find properties for investing purposes.

I was more focused on building the portfolio, and it paid off, as I scaled to 50+ rental units in 5 years.I started my own PM when I moved to a different market because I wasn't confident I could find one as good as my previous manager.

If so, there are no transfer taxes due. 

Would it be possible for my wife to transfer the house/deed into her name (or buy the house, etc.) so we can take a loan against it to help pay for the memory care?

Yes, you can transfer your properties to an LLC without refinancing, but here’s what to keep in mind:1.

If I transfer the money to my current job I cant barrow from it.

We would like to then transfer the new property from our Revocable Trust to the LLC. 

I could envision them refusing to disburse funds until the LLC is reinstated.There may be a way to transfer ownership of the account, but it is probably just easier to move the money.

You need to send him a letter with proof of delivery required (a cheap date with US postal service) and you can also post the Notice in a sealed white envelope marked confidential to his door - and take a photo of it for proof of delivery. 

I am currently renovating it and we plan to when i am done to transfer the property to my buisness name. what would be the best route to go.