I would love to connect, if that’s a possibility. 

You might even be able to get out from under the built up tax liability.With your asset amount, maybe its possible to sell out / 1031 to a REIT, and still cash out leaving behind the tax liability. 

How much can you budget for furnishings and all kitchen items and creature comforts for the ones you want to MTR.If you have a vacant 6-unit, you have great possibilities to try all strategies.

Is this really possible? 

Would it be possible for my wife to transfer the house/deed into her name (or buy the house, etc.) so we can take a loan against it to help pay for the memory care?

So things like, xbox/playstation ping pong for the kids maybe a turf strip to play some putt-putt for the adults etc...

Would love some guidance if possible. 

So, I think you can expect interest rates of 8% right now or possibly more. 4.

I’d think long and hard about this and possibly set up financial parameters for who is responsible.

RE is a long term play.