Husband and I have 3 rental properties between us that were we lived in separately at different points before getting married.

Look for undervalued properties.Network: Connect with local real estate agents, contractors, and other investors for insights and deals.Analyze Properties: Use the 1% rule to evaluate potential properties (monthly rent should be at least 1% of the total investment).Secure Financing: Explore different financing options like conventional loans, hard money loans, or private lenders.As for timing, if you can handle the extra responsibility, starting now could give you a head start.

It is different than the dynamic pricing, if you already use that for your STR.

I liked real estate so I got licensed, worked on a bunch of different RE strategies, started developing and managed to get myself stretched thin very quickly again, I basically made the pendulum swing way too far and had to consolidate again to find my path.

However, these two types of investments are different and require different resources and timelines. 

If I was starting all over I would do two things different:1.

I am new to biggerpockets.com so forgive me if this has been discussed already but, does the brrrr method work when working multifamily and if so can someone send me a case study or what the difference is 

It differs market to market.

Should you switch to a different minimum per night stay?

The cash flow portion of real estate is often related to risk and sweat equity, which is a different aspect of investment.