I went against my better judgment and rented to a non-married couple. 

Since you've lived in the apartment since 2007, you likely won’t be hit with any capital gains taxes as long as your profit is under the IRS exclusion limit ($250k for single filers or $500k for married couples).

Can someone from the group clarify if you can actually own the land besides marrying a Indonesian? 

Marry someone wealthy

When I returned, she was fully on board and ready to dive in.I was hoping to get some real-life examples like this because I see a lot of newbies that are gung ho, but don't think about this and then they are getting married and already not on the same page about the financial future.

But you likely aren't going to marry someone after a few text messages and single in person meeting.  

One individual needs to make the final decisions.Dispute Resolution: Define and agree on a method for resolving disputes that may arise, such as mediation or arbitration, to avoid litigation.Change in Marital Status: What happens to the ownership if a party gets married or divorced?

After getting married in 2023 and navigating wedding expenses, I finally committed to my real estate aspirations.

Repeat every 6 months until you get married and your spouse says "no more!"

My husband, Dalton Pathkiller, and I, have been together for almost 3 years, married for 2, and we have two beautiful daughters.