I am married with 2 kids.

You can build from that.I also recommend waiting until you are married before you do.

I have been married to my husband for 10 years we have 2 girls together and he has 2 adult girls and i have 2 teens all girls .but my husband got that title when he was 20 now he is 44 but i can tell you from my experience its been rough over the years cause people love to judge but forget how easily something like that could happen to themselves or there own kids .i am currently looking to find a place for my family cause the lady i rented from for 10 years decided to sell.

You cannot have a Solo 401k with full time w-2 employees outside of the married couple.   

He could have sold tax free if married but instead he’s going to ask the IRS for an $80k refund ($500k paid, says he sold for $100k) but again you will ow $250k because you said you bought it for $100k and sell for $1M. 

I am married and earn a good income, but we are a single income household—my husband is disabled and cannot work.

Partnerships be it JV or syndication are a lot like getting married.

I have a couple questions for you:Am I able to use my VA loan combined with another veteran if I am married? 

Lastly, unless you're married to this particular property, you should keep an eye out for other properties that just might be as sweet a deal.Also, about the HELOC, once it’s funded, those funds can generally be used for any purpose but double check with your lender JIC.

(Unless they move 100+ miles for work or get married and have kids).