Hey Anna, I would pull a HELOC on the property.

Anyone pull off the deal like this and have a lender you can send me that does it? 

I would also suggest joining you local Real Estate Investor Association, a quick Google search will pull one up in your area.

Worst case, I can look up zoning changes and match the address with recent sales, however, if no permits were pulled I do not know if renovations occurred further increasing the value.

Pull your own FICO score so they have a starting point for rates without them pulling your credit and creating an inquiry.  

On the other hand, I also want to be there for my mother.Has anyone else faced a similar situation where you have limited time off work and multiple responsibilities pulling you in different directions?

You're like someone who honks at a car for driving the speed limit and then looking away when they pull up to next you at a stoplight.  

For example, moving out a tenant includes about 30 steps like pulling their file, emailing them the move-out instructions, changing the lease in my software to "Active - Notice Given", stopping recurring charges and payments, prorating last month's rent, scheduling the pre-inspection, etc.

I will probably pull out and not have the second interview.

Appfolio lets you pull credit reports, calculate if income is met, etc...