Absolutely not because the reward if it did become successful was worth the risk.Remember what Michael Jordan said in one of the Nike commercials?"

Since you're in a grey area, what you want to do is build up the best possible case to argue that you should qualify.  1031 rules are complex, arbitrary, and disjointed. 

A wholesaler doesn't have a buyer when they put the property under contract, so shouldn't even be calling FSBO listings if the person is on the DNC list.NAR video on DNC list:https://www.nar.realtor/window...Even if we all agreed this is a grey area, why not just air on the side of caution and respect peoples wishes to not be called?

I am beyond the two years required.What I am trying to do is find a way to buy a multifamily using FHA 3 1/2% down payment as opposed to 20% or 25% as an investment property.I have a situation where it would be beneficial for me to try and help my mom and my sister move into a place  because I can afford to purchase it… The grey area is whether or not they are considered family members per FHA guidelines to qualify for the 3 1/2% down payment. on the FHA website… It says family members are considered parents, sisters, brothers, etc.I am definitely not trying to do anything illegal, I just thought maybe if I sell my primary residence… I could buy the multiunit per FHA guidelines as long as my mom and my sister are considered family.I have been told that the 12 month or 24 month living requirement only requires one family member to live in the home… So if my mom and my sister are considered family members… Does that meet the requirement? 

The problem you are likely running into is the Log Cabin part of it - at the end of the day, DSCR Loans are really still intended for properties that are generally usable for full-time owner-occupancy year-round living if needed - so true log cabins are pretty much outside of anyone's box.However, its definitely a grey area on what differentiates a "Log Cabin" from a "Cabin-Style" home. 

That opens a big grey area, that I would not like to defend myself against.

To quote Nike -- JUST DO IT!!

That will get into probably the top 20% of listing alone, since so many seem to be "throw in there whatever you got", so you get blue and grey towel in one bathroom, orange and red in the next, different sheets, pillows, throws, etc.As for what I would be asking of my designer: first you need a place that stops people from scrolling.  

It also helps if you start to keep everything the same(flooring choice, paint agreeable grey, fixtures, vanities) the more that you can systemize the better every step of the way will be.

People used to try to use old septic for grey water tanks.