Does that hypothetical HVAC company owner take my PM out for a steak dinner?  

People often have their closest friends over to their place often, far more than say, 7 times a year.

I could continue earning in perpetuity and giving to charity, but charities tend to weaken and I don't want my money going to something that isn't what it originally was.You sound a lot like my closest friend and mentor, Nathan.

It's the closest city out of CA and the closest to Silicon Valley.

Just pick the forum you think is closest -- people will see it.

Then they either cut it up themselves into steak and hamburger or they take it to a butcher shop an have it done.

Could treat you to a nice steak dinner ( 2 years ago since prices have tripled).Just build it correctly. ( within code).Good Luck 

To get to the closest Walmart or hospital is a 20 min drive.

List every town where your closest family and friends (only the ones you trust) live.3.

Most of the stuff closest to the city is just too pricey.