I'm currently engaged to be married in February 2024 and while she is 1,000% supportive of investing (being brought along in the journey while I do most of the day to day work), I want to make sure I don't forget to take time for my future marriage.

Tony, "et al." is an abbreviation for et alii, latin for "and all others" properly written with a period et al.It is included, say with Joseph Smith, et al. which may include as others who may come into title by marriage or heirs at which point those in title would be named and sign contracts and deeds, otherwise only the signature of Joseph Smith is required.You don't use this abbreviation in making an initial contract, but all those in title at that time should be named individually and you obtain thier signature.

I started out doing BRRR and owning property but with a family and a full time job that was not scalable (if I wanted to keep my marriage).

I lost everything including my marriage.

for about a year into our marriage, that was almost 6 years ago now.I hope to connect with more investors such as yourself as my time grows here on Bigger Pockets.If there is anything I can help with please feel free to message!

@Greg Moore  Over the past week I created a spreadsheet with this in mind for the "ONE" thing to do this year for investing, work, and my marriage. 

Letting a bad tenant in is like getting into a bad marriage; cheap & easy to get into... painful, time-consuming, and expensive to get out of.

@Brandon Elliott You're learning the rules of marriage ahead of the game!

We only had 1 conversation with the agent then a marriage for a year?

I nearly lost everything and I did lose my marriage.