From my court house visit about two thirds of all probates with properties involved surviving spouse that get the property by right of survivorship.So would you guys recommend mailing those folks, and should the massage differ from a regular probates?

You don't want to irritate with too much too often, you have to occasionally send him something with a kind and gentle nudge.

Write a targeted massage that addresses the problem of each group and how you can solve it.

I'd really appreciate a gentle push in the right direction and some guidance as well.

Walk in bathtubs AZ has water and air jets which provide proper massage and reduce stress.

baking soda + hydrogen peroxide 3% + laundry soapy solution seems to work best to neutralize the skunks secretions from hard surfaces (and pets fur), spot test first though.for human skin, tomato sauce or ketchup helps neutralize more gently. 

How can I gently tell them I need to learn more about them first before showing it to them?

A gentle nurse addicted to heroin, so he can't pay his rent?  

You've more or less got to abuse or neglect a typical German shepherd for it to be anything but a gentle giant...

I have an older 70+ gentle man and younger 50+wife renting my house.