Drug went bad in the kitchen, guy took a machete to the neck/shoulder, ran out bleeding.

Every where I was walking in and out the building, I kept looking over my shoulder.

In that case, maybe you can work out some sort of equitable split where you're making enough to cover what you need to make and keep yourself afloat, but also show the investor that you're willing to shoulder some risk as well. 

So, I've had this chip on my shoulder for awhile about appraisals...and it's something I realize I have to accept but wanted to reach out for a discussion with other investors and get your take on these.  

We are currently using Excel to manipulate our numbers into income statements and balance sheets and such, but my wife does not use the program, so it is on my shoulders. 

Obviously you are going to be buying a lot directly and privately, but if the agent has a good head on their shoulders they will think big picture and help get you the info you need.

You need to rub shoulders with folks doing deals.  

Your landlord shoulders that risk.2.

Account Closed , I wish I had the details, but it was just a loan I was peeking at over a colleague's shoulder.

You seem to have a good head on your shoulders, use it.