I looked up at the county records and lo and behold, it's a HUD home.

Haha okay, me and my wife go up to OKC and Norman pretty often...almost every time I come home actually lol She just likes to get away from the apartment and Durant is a small town!

Do some agents refer a LO or Lender?  

I believve I will go that route, since current LO said my score will be pulled again...

Some cash flowed and that was great, still acquired places to pay for themselves and took the appreciation.Other RE activities, L/O and sub letting was about cash flow.Being active is making a living and wealth, income has to come first, disposable income becomes the investment driver, still more really to appreciation, anything that pays for itself is free money.

So I told my LO of course I don't, you advised me to get an inspection, good faith deposit, appraisal and purchase home owners insurance which is about 2k so obviously I have spent some of money for house, why would you advise me to spend the money if youre going to be checking my accounts again?

An option does not tie up a property to the extent that an owner can't proceed with other dealings.Most residential L/O deals are weak.

Sounds like a sandwich L/O...Kudos,Mary

I would verify that the docs don't state the seller can not sell the rights or property to another person during the LO terms.  

Are you trying to do a sandwich LO or LO the property for your self?