But someone who wants to start buying or investing in large multi-family (60+ units) should be in a position where $20K isn't going to make much of a dent in their finances, regardless of whether it gets spent on a mentor or on closing costs. 

If she is getting close enough to thinking that there will be an income disparity, she will stop at nothing to compel my husband to provide income documentation.All finances are joint except for the rental, which I keep rents for in a separate checking account and track spending for.

If you have any tips, resources, or advice for someone just starting out, I’d greatly appreciate your insights.Some specific things I’m working on right now:* Building a strong buyers list.* Identifying motivated sellers and honing my outreach.* Learning the ins and outs of structuring win-win deals.I’m open to partnering, collaborating, or just grabbing coffee to exchange ideas.

So it crushed us cashflow wise because we couldn't finance anything and all of a sudden I'm too asset heavy and cash poor.

How did you finance this deal?

I want to ensure I’m doing this the right way while keeping my finances organized and compliant with any regulations.

right now Im practicing comping 3 random tips as a newbie? 

We would love to work together with a organization that sells the property and has services like rehab network, financing, property management. 

they just aren't going to shine until after you've owned them for 10+ years.i'm personally trying to buy on seller finance right now. 

How did you finance this deal?