I told my husband it's going to be blood in the streets soon.

Do pay your alcohol beverage taxes if you own a bar, they're going to come after you and seize your bar and probably even non-bar personal assets.   

Usually, "family" is considered the first tier, mother, father, sister, brother, daughter, son, your spouse, grandparents, all being in a direct linage, blood or marriage, your great uncle by marriage isn't in this group. 

I think what's missed so often about how most start in REI and build, is there most often a LOT of blood sweat and tears.

I predict this will end in a financial blood bath. 

The insurance company was pretty reasonable to work things out with even though it did not start out that way, and they did have my blood pressure up considerably!

That is not constructive, makes for bad blood and the last thing you need is a $5,000 eviction.Your tenants have not responded, because they don't know how.

I put my own sweat and blood into making the interior and exterior beautiful!

Also cut my alcohol intake.

Don't fall into the hole of drinking a lot of alcohol.