I've opted to go with the second lender as he has assured me my rate will be %3.75 at closing also with a cash out option.Anyone else experience mixed messaging as it relates to this fee?

Getting mixed answers about cost segregation on a SFH.

You could use a mix of short-term, mid-term, and long-term options as well as rent by room strategies to cash flow a little better.

An example of this would be mixing your personal money and LLC money in the same bank account.3.

I'm worried about mixing up male/female in the house to be honest. 

The property is zoned as mixed-use tourist commercial, which allows me to convert the property into a motel/hotel.

Do not mix your personal expenses with business on the same credit card, checking account...

You may see a little crossover in the smaller mixed use product, where an "apartment broker" is listing a 6k sq ft mixed use building with first floor retail and 8 apartments up top, but whether they are their own shop or not, they are certainly their own team.  

Looking to acquire a mixed use property in Morris County NJ - this is will be demo & reconstruct property so once the property is acquired we will be applying for variance / permits etc. with the town that may take ~12-18months to get approved.

Columbus offers a good mix of cashflow and appreciation while Cleveland is great for cashflow.