If so, expect to pay an additional 200 a month or more for water, 300 for electric, and a LOT for gas over our long cold Michigan winters.

Heating costs go up in winter, as does electricity due to the reduced natural light and more people indoors.

Second, look at converting to all electric. 

I'm also curious how much it costs to prepare the land and install plumbing, electricity, and concrete (driveway, walkways, patios).I'd love all the insights I can get from anyone that has experience doing this.

"wets" likes water, storm, sewer, and "dries/dry" like gas, electric, etc.

On top of that, you have other costs, such as permit, water, electricals, sewage system, etc... 

A 3rd floor addition will not only have structural modifications, but also require mechanical, electrical and plumbing permits.

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I also wouldnt worry about the electrical drain unless you are converting it to an MTR and paying electricity. 

Overhead door location and height, width and depth of space, bathroom locations and electrical and plumbing rough-ins etc.