Network and hopefully in the future be a guest at the bigger pockets podcast and Inspire others like you guys do it on a daily basis. 

You might consider teaming up with a mortgage broker to share the cost.The list criteria should include Renters, age 30-50, Income $70,000 plus, high Financial Stability Score and with that many bedrooms I'd add in families with children.

We are personally comfortable being renters as it suits our frequent moves, but I can't help but feel like we could really optimize certain advantages like BAH, and VA/TSP loans with the right amount of research.The problem is we don't really have the time or interest to be long-distance landlords, and with very young children (and more on the way) the immediate time suck of rehabbing and the home chaos of living in a place under construction (if we went the BRRRR route) is almost completely out of the question. 

Sounds like you have a great vision and I am inspired to read this!

My brother is a huge inspiration to me and and very smart person, somehow we switched rolls after our high school days where I was top 5% of my class academically and he was probably down in the middle more.However he has become one of the best business men, and all around greatest, strongest, person I know and he bought his first rental property last year.

Currently a portion of all of our tenants rent goes to the Children's Hunger Alliance in Ohio.

All of the replies or very insightful  and inspiring.

and do you put the names of the children on the lease as minors or just mention two children in a general way?

As someone who is still on the wrong side of the "grind", you story is an inspiration.

Technically, that’s no longer a renewal - that’s a renegotiation of the contract and had we known we would’ve accepted another offer.The whole thing is bizarre, I have a sense they have an agenda they’re not disclosing because at this price range, with kids enrolled in great private schools nearby, our experience has been the opposite - families wanting to lock the house down at their sole option for x years at x price.The arguments the tenants presented are very bizarre as well (what if lightning strikes the house, or I decide to adopt 4 children and need more rooms, what if I need laser surgery only available in Europe).