Maybe supplementing with a flip or two will give you the lifestyle you want faster.  

You'll also want to be very conscious to create a diversity of product. 

I am also leery to give or ask for a SSN as I am very security conscious.

I created a lifestyle i can’t afford.

Telas employees are not going to get a significant raise in lifestyle with nicer housing and shorter commute.. 

In good times, people in C properties want to upgrade their lifestyles and moved to Bs, and in bad times people in A class properties want to save money and move down to Bs. 

You can use the knowledge in passive real estate investing that you gain and share it with your clients - most of whom are probably W2 earners who, like you, don't have time to become a focused active investor.Active investing has a lot of benefits - it just isn't at all passive, even the "passive" turnkey kind - I am a big believer in matching your investing to your lifestyle. 

How to Create Wealth Investing in real estate: Grant Cardone (Great to get started, and visualize your journey forward), and Lifestyle Investor:Justin Donald (great for mobile home parks and general investment thinking), Am I Being too Subtle: Sam Zell ( Not specific to multifamily, but really good to understand Sam Zells journey spanning a few decades and financial forces which contributed to his great fortune).

I know I could go drive around and write addresses down, but I will only have 2 days a week/ 3 hours at a time to do this, with my busy life style  I think batch will probably be best because it already has everything integrated into their system.3rd. when using services what works best? 

As @Frank Jiang said, maybe a few employees working for the institutional players, working a hundred hours a week so they can have a nice salary and upper-middle-class lifestyle funded largely by debt and overspending, but actual people who actually salt away the wealth?