Has anyone had experience with this and/or have any ideas on how to create a win-win situation?

POST the ALL IN numbers, it takes UNDER 3 minutes to evaluate, ALL IN, then simply run comps, 

But this is the first inning and I’m not going to place the best on which team is going to win right now.

This is why it is folly to believe one can simply acquire a property and just sit on it forever and all will be fine.

I’d simply seek a variance and see if it’s still doable. 

And then re market it they cant have a buyer lined up ahead of time.. as that on its face means they have marketed the property.So read em weep wholesalers assignors.. but I am going to provide ulra short term funding for X wholesalers were we will do JV deals and they can still do what they do.. obviously its going to cost.. so wholesalers with limited profits wont be worth it..Or X wholesalers in SC simply have to get a RE license and get in the business that way . 

If you were able to find a place that allowed you cover at least a sizable chunk of the monthly expenses, and keep your monthly outlay at or around your current position I'd say that's a win.

I don't want to have any issues with folks that have allergies, especially those that have severe ones that can cause serious issues.Another thing is can't simply don't care...about anything...or anyone.

Also, your wife simply would need to "materially participate".

The professional tenants are everywhere and in CT, they'll win.