For non-performing: Performance Anxiety by Gordon MossFor understanding value calculations: Invest in Debt, by Jimmy Napierold, but still has some useful info: Smart Trust Deed Investment by George CoatsScott Carson (WeCloseNotes) just put out an e-book for $1, I haven't read it yet

Dying from anxiety over here, trying to manage all this and my day job.Advice?

Invest in Debt ~~Older but gives you an idea of notesPerformance anxiety ~ about seconds...Note Buying Cash Machine PodcastNoteMBA Podcast There are plenty of resources out there to help you get a basic understanding.  

Furthermore, Owner-move in evictions are not allowed on these lifetime leases.Her disability claim happened during the relocation and apparently claiming disabled is as easy as going to a licensed therapist/psychologist and having them write you a note saying you are having tremendous stress and anxiety from the relocation. 

After 6 months, I'll do a cash out refinance anxiety original cash back and do it again.

Parting with my money used to be an enormous point of anxiety for me.

You minimize your risk by eliminating anxiety, by not rushing into investments when you do not have the experience and business maturity and when you don't risk money you can't afford to lose.If I was in a position where I needed to use a hard money loan I would not risk using someone else's money with the risk of my venture going south.Oh!!!

My wife, who lived her entire life in a detached single family home, has much more anxiety than I do regarding our living standards.

My big concerns have been coming out of my comfort zone (it's been nice working from home and playing with kids) and building a network (social anxieties aside).As I mentioned, my investing goals are both buy and hold, and fix and flip.

I feel I'd have less management anxiety if I'm not worrying about a M2M tenant, but I'm still too new to see the benefits.