I am trying every angle I can to keep my children in the house and avoid further disruption to them. 

Stop answering this call, he's not disruptive to them. 

My electrician was able to ensure the place was safe and the power is up with minimal disruption to the tenants.

One one of the tenants is still working multiple part time jobs like before, without disruption.

Covid has disrupted other networking channels I’ve been wanting to use to meet other investors, so I’m wondering if anyone in this area is still meeting up?

Agree this is totally up to you.Normally we try to keep the tenant, train them on care/expectations or realize that they will not be cared for as we would like (focus on issues that will cost more if they continue as is), and do as many upgrades as we can while tenants are in place to reduce empty days.But if you are willing to take on the disruption of a move out and empty days, you have every right. 

Whereas with McGregror, if SpaceX moves out, it could easily be the entire SpaceX company - 100% - and then you're stuck with rental investments in a small Texas town with 0% growth (though I should caveat I don't know that much about McGregor).I think any major price drops in the Fort Hood area (the soonest BRAC would hit, if it even happened, would be 2021, and would surely be minor as was the last one) would be the result of national trends like spiking mortgage rates, a recession depressing would-be-homebuyer earnings, potential tax reform disruptions or issues with the Fannie Mae/Freddie Mac conservatorship.

If someone else can make money along the way without disrupting my business, good for them.

.…  They are trying to be disruptive using it as an excuse.

LOLSounds like he is getting in way over his head if he has no experience in owning or landlording even with your help.To answer your question The bank will most likely not allow you to remove your name from the LLC they will want you to be 50% on the LLC, they may even want you on the note to personally guarantee the mortgagee.This also could be very disruptive to your relationship, no matter how close you two think you are now.