However, I don't think they have resources to investigate these sorts of things and that policies exist not to prosecute them because they are likely small claims (under $10k in my state) so that the aggrieved person can seek a remedy themselves in civil court.

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Context:I’m seeking advice from those experienced in real estate investing and financial freedom strategies.I recently bought a multi-family property in Newport, RI, using my VA loan for $695K.

HelloMy husband and I are exploring REI in New England. We live in Seacoast New Hampshire and would prefer to invest as locally as possible to start. We've started looking into real estate because we want to use our v...

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A prudent investor doesn't seek quick riches through shortcuts.

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If you find someone giving you confused looks, seek a mortgage broker that helps investors.I'm not so sure how they would calculate income from short-term rentals.  

This can be especially appealing for those who enjoy traveling or seeking occasional getaways.

Your taxes are none of the ex wife's business and this would seem to address your concerns.I would also put her on notice that future requests for financial discovery will be two-way and if a discrepancy is seen in the other direction you will seek support from her.