Will the jays train people on what to avoid?

Ask to see their training room. 

and how do I go about dealing with this.If exactly as you say, your lender is either new/inexperienced or used some version of a form found on the internet rather than have a solid, attorney drafted agreement.

who may chase you around the internet with a digital pitchfork.

I have 3 VAs that make cold calls for me and I found that because I had started doing my own cold calling I was able to train them and advise them properly on how I wanted them to handle specific scenarios.

People think they can use the internet to skip this step. 

Further,  I am paying for his internet.  

But I’d ask your CPA if this random on the internet is right. 

@V.G Jason not a gravy train.

When it comes to buying real estate training courses (presuming they are legitimate and no scams) there is tons of evidence that they work.