If the deed is "tenants by the entirety" or "joint tenants with rights of survivorship" or something similar, then the surviving spouse should get to do as they please with the property.

I only require the interested party let me observe the process through its entirety for educational purposes. 

For the benefit of the forum, things to watch out for when dealing with scammers are: 1) double-check the email address used to send the email; 2) always be cautious of any instructions sent over email and not from a secure link/source; 3) read through the message in its entirety to spot any formatting errors or duplicate email signatures, etc.; 4) when in doubt, call the person in question using a number found online/another source to see if they indeed sent the message; 5) ALWAYS call to confirm wire instructions right before transferring funds, even if you called to confirm them before.

I began to see a true return on investment when i began farming phone numbers with multiple skip tracing tools and cold calling my direct mail list in its entirety.

Did they own the properties jointly (or as tenancy by the entirety)?

If you didn't get it, there it is in its entirety posted a couple back...

Three months of let’s say a 30 year career wholesaling when you look back on it will have been .00833% of the entirety.

In other words, did title transfer as tenancy by the entirety/joint with right of survivorship?

I don't know the entirety of the situation but I have encountered scenarios like this hundreds of times, where it was tenants fault, I held them accountable.. that's my two cents / food for thought :)

Listening to all the modules at its entirety at your convenience with a notebook and pencil is key to everything you need to get you started.