The good ones become trusted advisors and are leaned on heavily.  

However, you can mitigate this by using a trust or holding company to add a layer of privacy, where the LLC is not directly tied to your name.Attorney can help you better.

I do not have a trusted contractor.

The property is currently in a trust. 

You can install a lockbox onsite and place a master in it for your trusted contractors.

Besides having your name on the annual report, if you are seeking financing on the property, your name is going to be on the mortgage/deed of trust. 

Companies that adopt strong privacy practices will not only avoid the costly fines associated with non-compliance but also build trust with customers and investors.Moreover, as regulations become stricter and more global, adopting robust privacy tools and technologies will set forward-thinking real estate firms apart from their competitors.The global regulatory awakening around data privacy is not going away.

i’ve heard a lot about this method . the thing i’m confused about is how would i convince a lender to give me their money.. like if it’s my first time, will they just trust me? 

Trust me, you don’t want to find out you’re violating a local ordinance after the fact-it can get messy and expensive fast2.

Always the day of, I don't trust others to comply with all rules.